Marj
And Joe
Remember the time when you were young and bold, nothing
to worry about, not so much as a care
The innocence of it all was so omnipresent, carrying on
on a wing and a prayer
Surely doesn't seem that long ago, but so many years
have gone by in the blink of an eyelash
School was finished, then work, then parenthood, then
children's children came in a flash
What stands out so vividly in my aged memory bank, for I
was maybe in my thirties or so
Is a recollection of an older man and his wife, and how
the love for her man did show
He had suffered a stroke many years before, and she had
taken on the care-giving role
Marj was somewhat serious and Joe had been, a
happy-go-lucky soul
Joe had been reduced to a totally dependent person, but
Marj treated him like a king
She shaved his face, combed his hair and wiped his
mouth, did all and everything
She'd help him into his rocking chair and as he'd peer
out through the clouded window pane
Marj would cook and read him books and oh, so lovingly
say Joe's name
She told me how much she misses him and how, when a tear
rolls down his face
She has such a hard time remaining strong and often, has
to change her space
'Cause Joe understands all she says, but just barely
moves his eyes
Marj told me she weeps at nights, but in front of Joe
inside, silently she cries
Joe had been a hard-working, diligent man, but very
gentle and also very kind
At times a little tough and his hands were rough, but he
loved Marj with all his soul and mind
She said Joe was her best friend and she knew, she was
his best friend too
Said she missed; with such rough hands, such a gentle
touch, never enough for she, that he could do
She missed the man he used to be and as she showed me,
many a photograph
A tear rolled down as she talked of him, his sense of
humour and how he always made her laugh
She sighed a lot as we went through the pics and she
went on about him so sweet and smart
And that when they were young, she had another beau, But
Joe was the one who stole her heart
Well on the weekends the grand kids come and around the
house they'll play
At times she feels despondent, for they really don't know
him and it's just, “hi grampa they'll say”!
Joe had the biggest heart and loved Marj so much and
still together, after all these years
I hugged Marj and as I wiped her cheek, I could feel the
sadness in her tears
I've listened to love songs, read love stories and those
stories on TV
Nothing compares to Marj's love for Joe, for that is
love, that was truly meant to be
Joe and Marj have long since passed, but her passion and
love, is emblazened in my mind
And I can only dream of love like Marjs' and only wish
that I could find
I think of Marj and I think of Joe, being totally
disabled, but utterly aware
Of him being shaved, his mouth being wiped, not able to
rock, in his rocking chair
And it's hard to even fathom, a reality so profound
Hopefully when it's time, it's time, 'cause like that, I
don't want to hang around